Friday, December 8, 2017

Beauty from Ashes - A Continual Process: (Re-post) There is no "silver lining" It. Is. Red....

Beauty from Ashes - A Continual Process: (Re-post) There is no "silver lining" It. Is. Red....: I wrote this post 2 years ago, on December 23rd, 2015, 3 months before I lost my brother, and we all lost a wonderful man as he went ahead ...

(Re-post) There is no "silver lining" It. Is. Red.

I wrote this post 2 years ago, on December 23rd, 2015, 3 months before I lost my brother, and we all lost a wonderful man as he went ahead to heaven. These words mean even more to me this Christmas. My (our) pain is deep...but also so many friends that I have are in the midst of deep pain this Christmas season. May you find hope here...Jesus.

As I was out running this morning, I was so aware of God really tuning my heart this Advent season.  This will not be an organization of thoughts, but a download of disorganization and how that is OK.

I'm more aware this year than ever, that Christmas in all it's beauty is also pain.  We rejoice in the precious baby, God incarnate being born.  We set out lights, candles, cards, cookies, gifts, traditions rich and meaningful to our families and friends.  But they are meaningless if they don't point to the Cross.

One year we were given a nail ornament, to represent the nails that went into Jesus.  I always hid that ornament in the bottom of the box because I couldn't reconcile putting in on our celebration tree.  I didn't want anything dark to mark our celebration.  But without the darkness, we never see light.

"The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it."  John 1:5

I'm not saying we should mourn every moment of the Christmas season!  The angels sang!  "Fear not, I bring you good tidings of great joy!  A Savior is born in Bethlehem."  Luke 2:10.  There is great joy in our Savior coming for us!

Coming. For. Us.

As I was running I was thinking about  how much grace I need to cover the gaps in my heart every day.  God is sealing those gaps, but without His grace, I am extreme in all of these:  feeler, empathizer, controller, insecure, fearful.  And without daily coming to Him as my Abba Father, I will be aware of these things to the point of distraction.  Distraction from His love, His joy, His peace, His blood that reconciled all these things to my weary soul so it would not be weary. Colossians 1:20

But in Christ, I am loved, redeemed, accepted, adopted, blessed, chosen, forgiven.

"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, 4 even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love 5 he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, 6 to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved.7 In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses,according to the riches of his grace, 8 which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight9 making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ 10 as a plan for the fullness of time, to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth.'  Ephesians 1

When we dwell on our "triggers" they TRIGGER!!  A little thought can pop in my mind and suddenly I am at a # 10 on anxiety.  And I am really terrible at letting others minister to me.  The few times I have let someone in to help me, I have said something like this, "I really need help;  but I know what is going on so I don't need help."  I call, and then push.  Anyone get that?

Well Jesus came to earth and suffered every thing we have and more, yet without sin.  We can trust Him.  I was thinking about how His death burial and Resurrection were the "silver lining."  And then it came to me, it is a red lining.  His blood is what saves us continually, once for all time.  He entered our pain to take on our pain.  I can, we can, call on Him and not push Him away.  I know that it is safe to call on Him, I have a knowing today, that He does not look on my shame, but on His beloved, because of Christ.  That red line came through Rahab, a harlet, just one of the many ways Jesus shows us His unconditional love for us.  That line ran through David and on down the line to us.  He is the "red lining."

So this Christmas I'm wishing Christmas were the first day of the New Year, because it is the first day of the prophecy of the Messiah coming being fulfilled, and it will yet be fulfilled again!  He. Is. Coming.

So let this Christmas have joy, let yourself feel pain, but purposefully shift your gaze when the triggers come, and they will.  Shift your gaze to the Messiah.  He sent the Comforter (Romans 8) to help us in the here and now.  So, even the silly things that weigh me down, I can let go of today.  I love you.  I couldn't wrap my brain around Christmas cards this year.  I didn't even get Josh's senior pictures lined up before the leaves fell.  There is so much I can not do in my flesh, that I could measure myself by.  But this is what is important, Jesus said,

"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." John 10:10

I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.  John 15:11

He. Is. Here. And. Now.

Wednesday, October 4, 2017

When Its Deep We Get Tossed Head Over Heals, But Its Not Forever!

The loss of my brother will always take my breath away - that's true for all who miss Joel.  As my heart constricts and my breath leaves, and I feel the deep ache in my chest and throat - even then,  I feel God again.  People said I would, but the despair made it impossible to imagine.  I also know that every day, season, event will bring new filters...


I'm sure that in life, we will always be aware of someone suffering.  The ones who can get closest to our heart are those who have suffered in the same way.  In time our inward suffering calls us to outward action.

A lot is going on in the world.  Where can God use your pain?  If not yet, some day He will, if you offer it up to Him.  Take your time...I'm taking mine.  But when you're His child, He is close, whether you sense it or not. 

God. Is. My. Anchor.


I have hope and a taste of His presence again.  Psalm 34 says, "Taste and see that the Lord is good."  Many have prayed for our family in our grief.  God calls us to pray for one another.  Thank you does not even begin to express my gratitude.  

Prayer lifts our gaze, lets us confess, praise, intercede, offer thanks.  There is a listening part of prayer too.  Slowing down allows us to hear His response of unconditional love.  
We have a good good Father.I am seeing, and want to see more of
 "the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living." Psalm 27:13

I am trusting in the truth that we drink from the living waters of hope.



"Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, ‘Out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.’” John 7:38 and "I will make rivers flow on barren heights, and springs within the valleys. I will turn the desert into pools of water, and the parched ground into springs." Isaiah 41:18  and Isaiah 43:19




"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God." – 2 Corinthians 1:3-4


I don't know what God has planned.  But I know that I don't want this pain to be in vain.  My desire is to see God not only continue healing my family and me, but that He would grace us to be living vessels of His love to the hurting.  May the following verses bring you hope today, in what ever you are facing.  And know this, the bulbs we plant down deep in the cold hard winter soil create the most beautiful blooms come spring.  Hold on dear one.



Psalm 42:6-8: 

"O my God, my soul is in despair within me; Therefore I remember You from the land of the Jordan And the peaks of Hermon, from Mount Mizar. 7Deep calls to deep at the sound of Your waterfalls; All Your breakers and Your waves have rolled over me. 8The LORD will command His lovingkindness in the daytime; And His song will be with me in the night, A prayer to the God of my life.…"



Psalm 31
“In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Incline your ear to me; rescue me speedily! Be a rock of refuge for me, a strong fortress to save me! For you are my rock and my fortress; and for your name's sake you lead me and guide me;...

I will rejoice and be glad in your steadfast love, because you have seen my affliction; you have known the distress of my soul, and you have not delivered me into the hand of the enemy; you have set my feet in a broad place. Be gracious to me, O Lord, for I am in distress; my eye is wasted from grief; my soul and my body also. For my life is spent with sorrow, and my years with sighing; my strength fails because of my iniquity, and my bones waste away.

But I trust in you, O Lord; I say, "You are my God."

Make your face shine on your servant; save me in your steadfast love!

Oh, how abundant is your goodness, which you have stored up for those who fear you and worked for those who take refuge in you, in the sight of the children of mankind!

I had said in my alarm, "I am cut off from your sight." But you heard the voice of my pleas for mercy when I cried to you for help. Love the Lord, all you his saints! The Lord preserves the faithful but abundantly repays the one who acts in pride. Be strong, and let your heart take courage, all you who wait for the Lord!”
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭31:1-3, 5, 7-10, 14, 16, 19, 22-24‬ ‭ESV‬‬ 


This following songs soothes me with the Scripture:

Til The End of Time by Cody Carnes and Kari Jobe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sFbtU1UM9T4




"Deep
 calls to deep at the sound of Your waterfalls; All Your breakers and Your waves have rolled over me. 
8The LORD will command His lovingkindness in the daytime; And His song will be with me in the night, A prayer to the God of my life."
Psalm 42:7-8

Sunday, August 13, 2017

#No Filter

I write my heart.  I write of pain and beauty.  My Blog title, Beauty from Ashes, is not about my beauty at all!  It is taken from Isaiah 61 where the Isaiah was telling of a God-man to come.  Jesus.  

Jesus was going to come,  now Jesus has come, and the full healing of Jesus is to come.  But God wanted Isaiah to give us hope...


The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me,
...
to proclaim good news to the poor.
...
to comfort all who mourn,
3 and provide for those who grieve in Zion—
to bestow on them a crown of beauty
instead of ashes,
the oil of joy
instead of mourning,
and a garment of praise
instead of a spirit of despair.
They will be called oaks of righteousness,
a planting of the Lord
for the display of his splendor.

Today at church we read Psalm 130.  David writes of pain, mercy, and waiting, and hope.

A year and 5 months after my brother's death, I have grown and healed, and at the same time I'm torn apart.  Split second interruptions of my thoughts can send my soul back 1 year and 5 months.  

But I have tasted of healing and hope, and so my soul grows in faith.   God is once again, showing me that He wants to create beauty from pain.   He won't waste a moment if we open up to His love.  I don't know what that will look like yet.  My hope is that in some small way, my writing of this journey will be a slice of the hope of Heaven to a soul in need.  

I used to love to throw out bits of hope as I come across them in my own heart.  It's been a long dry spell.  But I am waking in hunger for His presence each morning.  I'm beginning to find and share #hiddentreasures again.  This was my early morning taste of hope from God:




The honest truth about my personal journey of grief is that I sometimes hurt more in church than when alone in the Word.  My mystical view of "church" as a child was that it should always be a happy place.  But church is a "real" place.  A place to bring the brokeness and the pain.  A place to give your heart to those moments you don't understand.  A place to slice off a piece of your own broken heart and share it with someone else who also needs understanding.  Jesus came and took all our brokeness on Himself, so we could look and point to eternity with Him.  Now that is hope!

Get some Jesus from someone further on their journey than you.  
Be you in the moment.  
And give some Jesus to someone coming along behind.

One of the hidden treasures, might not seem like a treasure at first.  I'm not quite there yet myself...but you begin to know how someone else feels in this pain.  You are part of the "inside circle" you never wanted to be a part of.  But you find family in that circle and you begin heal in that circle.  You are one that knows the second year is not easier, it's still raw and the hard part is that life goes on and you're still dealing with such great loss.  I will never see a second year suicide survivor of a loved one again and assume anything, I will know what they need and I hope I can bring a gift with that knowledge.  I also hope to join the army of those raising suicide awareness.  There is work to be done and survivors know what that work looks like.  Often they live in silent pain because they were not able to prevent it.  So many angles...so much love needing poured into those wounds.  Who better?...Someday.

I took a walk today, and saw this one lone sunflower in the middle of a construction site.  A picture of beauty from pain.  The dirt and weeds all scruffy and piled in messes all around, the beautiful landscaped part that was finished in the distant background.  

And this lovely yellow smile right in the middle.  Bringing a smile right in the middle of my heart.  This flower needs no filter, it's real, and brilliant and bright mixed in with the dirt and weeds.  Let your self  just be who you are, and lean into Jesus as He does the work.  One day a sunflower will pop right out of your heart and you will breathe again.  

This I know.  

Hillsong United, Wonder

Tuesday, July 18, 2017

When the unimanigable is a "filter," a new normal, the "picture" is still there... Hold on to hope!

Today I pray a glimmer of God's light will shine through my brokenness, the many cracks held together only by the Spirit of God. He is my glue. I'm learning that there's always a new filter through which we see life. Each painful experience, changes the way we filter past pain as well. We see everything differently.  With the unimaginable, there can come unimaginable strength as well. At some point we get to the place where this filter, though unwanted and always with us, allows us to see a new kind of beauty. A beauty from pain.  There is no time table for this...

On my drive home last night I saw the sun setting on the horizon of a beautiful Kentucky farm.  I snapped the picture through my dirty car window.  All these thoughts came crashing in.  The window changed the purest beauty of the sun setting, but the sun was in the picture,  and its beauty was still there.



A new strength slowly sprouts from beneath the cement, it's tender and needs nourishment, but a change does begin.  Hope does return.  Memories and belly laughs and big bowls of ice cream come sneaking in.  Isaiah said that Jesus would come to heal the broken hearted in Isaiah 61,  I've always loved and believed this.  But oh how the "filter" has made this truth all the richer:

The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me,
because the Lord has anointed me
to bring good news to the poor;
he has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
to proclaim liberty to the captives,
and the opening of the prison to those who are bound;
2 to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor,
and the day of vengeance of our God;
to comfort all who mourn;
3 to grant to those who mourn in Zion—
to give them a beautiful headdress instead of ashes,
the oil of gladness instead of mourning,"

Jesus quoted that passage about Himself in Luke 4:18-21,

18 “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,
because he has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives
and recovering of sight to the blind,
to set at liberty those who are oppressed,
19 to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor.”
20 And he rolled up the scroll and gave it back to the attendant and sat down. And the eyes of all in the synagogue were fixed on him. 21 And he began to say to them, 

“Today this Scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing.”


Jesus is always and forever, the true bookends to our measured days.  The truth of His mission was foretold and then announced in the present time, and now is the truth of the cross of over 2,000 years ago that we can cling to for strength for today.  

I did not think I would ever have a flicker of light return.  In fact, there were many days that I thought maybe God's light was snuffed out... I chose to wait in silence.  Not just wait, I pursued healing, but it was so dark.  But, I held onto hope that God would not abandon me.  There is a song, "He will hold me fast."  Those lyrics put me to sleep countless nights.

Brokenness is talked about a lot.  I've been broken before, but never in such a paralyzing way.  In the 15 months since my brother Joel's death I have smiled outwardly, as the shell of my soul hid beneath the hopeless unending questions.  It's not over.  3 weeks ago I had one of those days.  A day of beating myself up for the weight of the pain and its power over me. 

There is no set time or pattern to grief, and the grief of a suicide is a complicated grief, and mixture of tragedy and loss combined.  All grief is different.  And spouses, children, parents, and siblings all grieve differently as well.  But pain is pain and we do not compare, but encourage each individual journey.

My aunt recently reminded me that diamonds are formed in the dark.  John 1:5 talks about the light shining in the darkness.  I claimed that verse for years, and it says that the darkness is not overcome.  But "would I be overcome?"

I have felt God nudging me to look for the hidden treasures in life.  A picture of the geo-cashing that I got to do with Joel.  I felt God saying, your going to keep hurting, but "now I'm giving you the strength to look up and out.  Just keep following me a day at a time."  

I'm learning not to look ahead.  I'm working at being present in this moment.  Another practice that is spreading, but there is real meaning, especially when I can practice His presence...the knowledge that God is with me in this very moment.  I'm beginning to ask for glimpses of Him daily, a practice I once did routinely.  And you know what? God shows up.  Or actually, I see that He is there!

This past week, Steve and I got away alone for a week, a first in 31 years.  Yes, it gave room for the tears to flow, time slowed enough to remember that God says He collects our tears in a bottle.  A time to remember that Jesus wept, that Jesus suffered on this earth so one day our pain could be gone and we will be overcome by Him in all His glory.

On this trip I had this crazy impulse to chase joy in something I would normally fear.  I went para sailing.  This moment made a benchmark in my life.  A moment in time when I chose to allow myself to have fun,  like Joel would want.  A time to mark my smile as real.  



Yes, we've had joy this year;  Kristen and Tyler got married, Kristen graduated from college, Josh and Eliza got a puppy...he named her Zoey after Joel and Tammy's dog.  But I needed a moment, a moment where I could "feel," and also say to my family, God's got this mama and she is going to be OK!  A moment to see that there is life after loss, a life worth chasing so that your broken places are not wasted, but used to come along side others.   But also to realize that there is not a clock for this process.  There is a freedom in that. 

I've been blessed by a precious group called survivors of suicide.  If any of you in the group read this, please know that you received me and my tears, and shared your tears.  Together you were/are an instrument of hope to my soul.  And as new broken souls join, we can together carry one another and point to hope.  Thank you from the bottom of my heart.  I know that we all have different beliefs.  I am sharing my personal journey as I blog.  It used to be about knowing God while dealing with and overcoming anxiety and depression.  But the "filter" has changed.  And as life is fluid, so are anxiety and depression.  But I have found God to flow with me in this river of life.

I have always been very moved by Scripture and lyrics of worship music.  Most recently I've been deeply touched by Hillsong United's album, Wonder.  I've shared some lyrics and links below.  Yet this past Sunday, I had to leave church during one of my favorite worship songs.  It's OK.  I tell you this because the big smile I posted on FB while para sailing points to a moment in time.  A moment when the tide is beginning to change.  The tide is always changing.  And sometimes it brings joy and other times, not so much.  

I just thought maybe it was time to put another stake in the ground of this journey for anyone following behind.  Hold onto hope.  Life on earth is a time to fall forward into Jesus and share light.  One day we will see face to face Who we now often see dimly... Jesus.  We the broken can link arms and move forward. We can in time give faith, hope and love to each other.  Most importantly love.  Jesus says His perfect love casts out fear in 1 John 4:18.  I'll admit, sometimes I'm afraid to love too deeply, because real love hurts.  But its a hurt worth chasing and a chase worth running after.  

There is a movement called the semicolon movement.  It speaks of hope.  Of moving beyond darkness, pressing on, because there is so much more to give, there is no "period" at the end of the sentence...but a semicolon 


And so we move forward, peace be with you on the journey... I have a picture returning to me;  a tall, strong, loving, giving, caring, brother with the warmest smile and best bear hug you'd ever want!


2 Corinthians 4:6-18
"For God, who said, “Light shall shine out of darkness,” ...
7But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, so that the surpassing greatness of the power will be of God and not from ourselves;"

1 Corinthians 13:12
12 ...Now we see but a dim reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. 13And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of these is love.…"


"The Garden" by Kari Jobe
I had all
But given up
Desperate for it
A sign from love
Something good
Something kind
Bringing peace to every corner of my mind

Then I saw the garden
Hope had come to me
To sweep away the ashes
And wake me from my sleep

I realized
You never left
And for this moment
You planned ahead
That I would see
Your faithfulness in all of the green

I can see the ivy
Growing through the wall
'Cause You will stop at nothing
To heal my broken soul

I can see the ivy
Reaching through the wall
'Cause You will stop at nothing
To heal my broken soul

Ohhh
Ohh, You're healing broken souls
Ohh, You're healing broken souls

Faith is rising up like ivy
Reaching for the light
Hope is stirring deep inside me
Making all things right

Love is lifting me from sorrow
Catching every tear
Dispelling every lie and torment
Crushing all my fears

You crush all my fears
You crush all my fears
With Your perfect love
Ohh-ohhh, with Your perfect love

Now I see redemption
Growing in the trees
The death and resurrection
In every single seed...

Hillsong United
"Rain / Reign"

Everything starts in You
Made to be beautiful
Nothing could tear Your heart
From the covenant You made for love

Everything moves in time
Played into Your design
Nothing could tear Your heart
From the world You died to save

You fall like rain!
In fire and thunder
The mountains melt
Like wax before You

Everything finds its place
Folding beneath Your ways
Nothing could stand against
Your resurrected Name

You fall like rain!
In fire and thunder
The mountains melt
Like wax before You
Your kingdom reigns!
In everlasting grace and wonder
Your love making all things new
Your love making everything beautiful

My God
Making all things new
Everything turning from ruin to life in You
Making all things new
Everything turning to something so beautiful!..
Your goodness, Your mercy
Your promise crashing down like rain
Your kingdom, Your glory
Your presence breaking out...

Like rain!
In fire and thunder
The mountains melt
Like wax before You
Your kingdom reigns!
In everlasting grace and wonder
Your love making all things new
Your love making everything beautiful

Everything ends in praise
Shining in Your embrace
Nothing could tear Your heart
From the promise that remains

You fall like rain
In fire and thunder
The mountains melt
Like wax before You
Your kingdom reigns!
In everlasting grace and wonder
Your love making all things new
Your love making everything beautiful

"Glimmer In The Dust", Hillsong United

VERSE 1
I was lost in a moment
A glimmer in time
Like a child chasing shadows
My back to the light
I was lost in a fog till
You caught my eye
Through the smoke and the mirrors
A glimmer of life

CHORUS
I know there’s a place I belong
Where I’ll see the fullness of love
A child face to face with my God Lost in
Your awesome wonder While I wait
I will not be afraid
My faith will remain all the same
My hope in the things not yet seen
Found in the greatest of these

VERSE 2
I found love in a moment
Exploding in light
At the cross where the curtains
Were ripped from my eyes
I found heaven in pieces
In glimmer and dust
Broken glass in reflection
Till we shine like the sun

BRIDGE
I know that You love me I know that
You love me Your love never fails
Your love never fails
When all’s said and done
All that matters is love
So let love take over
Not just in part
But in all that You are
Let Your love take over


"Splinters and Stones", Hillsong United
Fate
Holds nothing on the providence I know
No longer bound to things of wood and stone
When all I had to offer was my worst
You saw my heavy heart and loved me first

Your beauty staring down my brokenness
You chose to throw Your heart into the mess
Compassion crashing down upon my debt You were there

All this time
Like a river running through my failure
You carried me all this time
Like the splinters buried in
Your shoulders You carry me now

Hallelujah
If ever now my heart cries hallelujah
If ever now in the wonder of Your grace
A thousand times a thousand years my soul
Will say

Grace
You saw the crushing weight my flesh deserved
You kneeled and wrote forgiveness in the dirt
And one by one the stones fell where they lay
As one by one my accusers walked away
With nothing left to throw they made a cross
And knowing only love could count the cost
You were there

All this time
Like a river running through my failure
You carried me all this time
Like the splinters buried in
Your shoulders Your love carried all my shame
Jesus how my soul will praise You
You carried me all this way
Like a diamond in the scars upon
Your crown You carry me now

Hallelujah
If ever now my heart cries hallelujah
If ever now in the wonder of Your grace
A thousand times a thousand years
My soul will say
Hallelujah
Forever now in the greatness of my Saviour
Forever now in the brightness of Your Name
Jesus on this rock I'll sing Your praise

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

HOPE IN GRIEF: When you start to see that the forest is not a mirage, you begin to see past the trees...

 & worship is part of my journey again...

Two blog posts ago, I shared about not being able to "see for forest for the trees."  Progress is a journey, so I bring hope in this post.  I may not see the forest, but I can see a wooded area.  The desert is a long hot, ugly hike, but the trees give shade and rest.  My brother knew a lot about hiking!  He was on a journey to hike the AT a chunk at a time.  He found his peace in the forest.  And now I can see that in this inexpressible loss, hope is no longer just a mirage, there is water...

Two years ago when I fell in love with the song Oceans, by Hillsong United, I knew I had been in deep waters  (Psalm 42:7) before and God had carried me. I knew I would soon be letting go of one to Honduras, and two nearing college. I knew I had a lot to learn. I felt confident that God had given this song to me at that time to point me back to the truth that He is always with me.

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you." Deuteronomy 31:6

But I did not know, nor do any of us know what tomorrow holds.  It's been a year since my brother went to Heaven.  I became angry about that song, Oceans.  What?  Not this deep Lord!  Honestly?  I still have a lot of anger and hurt.  Any of us could insert something here incredibly painful here.  

So many are involved in rescuing children and find themselves in need of rescue, so many battle disease, so many counsel the hurting...we all need HOPE.  This is not our home.

I'm re-learning that as in Philippians 2 says, Jesus humbled Himself as a man to die for what I did, so I could live like He LIVES - in victory!  Just think of the pain as God the Father looked away as Jesus took on our sin.  But HE KNEW...

"who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. 9 Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, 10 so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father."

I don't want this to be in vain.  I want hope, light, Jesus to win in my heart.  He has already won, and yet I am still stuck in the not yet.  I know I (we) will get there but not on our own.

"This is the word of the LORD...: 
'Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,' says the LORD Almighty. Zechariah 4:6


Your Word, Hillsong Worship

Psalm 119 - All of it! The Power of the Word of God
Psalm 42:7 Deep waters

As It is ( In Heaven), Hillsong Worship
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_oR5Twx-RU

Matthew 6:9-13,  The Lord's Prayer

Empires, Hillsong United

"What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived" -- the things God has prepared for those who love him--"1 Corinthians 2:9

Isaiah 40 - All of it.  He will watch over us and give us strength.

Captain, Hillsong United
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_oR5Twx-RU


John 1:5 "The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it."

Captain, Jesus, I ask You today, to help us walk into the unknown trusting, all things are possible in You.  Someday I WILL BE A VOICE OF HOPE  to the grievers of suicide and loss.  But for now, I am learning by experience that YOU HOLD ME (US) in it all.  So I leave the keyboard today, knowing of so much pain in all our lives, and also so much joy.  Let us look to the Son!  Let us look for the joy, and let us ask God to let us see Him.

Look To The Son, Hillsong Worship

Passion - Worthy of Your Name

The journey continues, lets do this together.  I still mostly see trees, but just like Jesus healed the blind man in stages, I know I am seeing more, living more each day.  Let me give Hope!  God's Word and worship music move my heart and so I'm sharing where I am living now.

In honor of our brother, Joel, ( a son, a father, an uncle, a nephew, a husband, and friend to all ) and the many Officers who suffer from PTSD and live to sacrifice and serve and protect us,

"I will not die but live, and will proclaim what the LORD has done." Psalm 118:17

There's more to your story...

If you would like to subscribe to this blog, please enter your email in the box provided.  I will not know who you are if you sign up, it is anonymous.  Thanks!